Maintained Cemetery |
Well Kept Cemetery |
Property Tax Form |
Digging a Grave |
Broken Stone |
Cemetery Owned By Bardstown |
Charlotteville Cemetery |
Cemetery Owned by Indiana Town |
Uncared for Cemetery |
Church Cemetery |
Cemetery Sign |
An Illinois Cemetery |
Exempt Cemetery |
White Bronze Planter |
Cemetery with a Lack of Funds |
Uncared for |
Abandoned |
A cemetery may also be abandoned because of lack of money. If an older cemetery has reached capacity and has no perpetual care funds to assist with the maintenance of the grounds and stones, an owner may simply walk away and leave the site unattended, and uncared for.
County Courthouse |
County Offices |
As
Benjamin Franklin so poignantly said, "Show me your burial grounds and I'll show you a measure of the civility of a community."
It is indeed in our society's best interest to keep our cemeteries well maintained and cared for, for they are the annals of our past and our present, describing just who we were to future generations.
~ Joy
It is indeed in our society's best interest to keep our cemeteries well maintained and cared for, for they are the annals of our past and our present, describing just who we were to future generations.
~ Joy
~ Joy
In our local churchyard in the UK it's the parish council who are responsible for the maintenance the the family maintain the graves and headstones unless there are no relatives alive.
ReplyDeleteThanks for your helpful advice. Went to visit our family plot in NJ and the large stone was there but all the markers in the ground were moved over and sunk and could not even determine if anything was under there they were so deep. It's a privately owned cemetary and when my cousin complained they said it was not their responsibility. We even have the paperwork from the 1030's saying Perpetual care paid in full. I am not done battling this and due to their neglect in this matter I will hopefully get them to recover the stones that are sunk in the ground...
ReplyDeleteLisa, have you had any luck with this?
DeleteA few years ago I passed a cemetery just outside of El Centro, CA that had a sign out front. The sign said something about bankruptcy and being bank owned. The cemetery was all dirt, no upkeep had been done, and it looked abandoned. A few weeks later I drove by it again on a fluke and the cemetery was covered in flowers. A holiday had just passed and all of the graves had been visited, and flowers were left.
ReplyDeleteLast year I drove by again and it was gone. This cemetery wasn't so old that it had "died". Rather, it had been mismanaged. Saddest thing I've ever seen.
Tina, that is so sad. There are so many older cemeteries that just disappear due to mismanagement and a lack of caring...
DeleteMy Mother passed away in January and we PAID a cemetery that has passed over to the state of Michigan to bury my Mom and they still have not set the dual headstone in the ground yet. My Father was already there with an existing headstone. When they buried my Mother it was very bad weather but since then they still have not finished what I paid them to do. They keep saying the state pays us to maintain the cemetery so they have limited help there but I paid them not the state. We maintain the grave ourselves and have never complained about having to repay for everything since the original owner spent all of the money and abandoned the cemetery. What can I do to get them to do what I paid them to do?
ReplyDeleteOh, Jackie, I'm so sorry you're going through this. It's hard enough to lose a loved one; the cemetery is supposed to help alleviate some of that suffering... I would check with your state's comptroller's office. At least in Illinois, this is the office that oversees cemeteries and burial problems. If that does not help - see whom they suggest, and if your State Attorney's office can get someone in gear to do something.
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