Yes, I am one of those people who love to wander cemeteries. I find it akin to visiting an art museum; an opportunity to enjoy rarely appreciated sculpture, intricate carvings, and amazing architecture in a tranquil outdoor setting. This is a blog about cemetery culture; art, history, issues of death, and genealogy - subjects of current relevance. I usually find something that intrigues me, something that makes me want to dig deeper - relevant, yet fascinating. Care to join me? Read on.....
This Sunday is Father’s Day, a day which is celebrated on the third Sunday of June each year in the United States.Sonora Smart Dodd thought of the idea of having a special day to honor fathers in 1909.
William Johnson Smart
Sonora’s father, William Smart, was a widower whose wife died while giving birth to their sixth child.He raised all six children by himself.Sonora felt that all fathers should be honored for their selfless actions with a special day.She chose June because that was the month of her father’s birth.The first official Father’s Day celebration was held on June 19th, 1910 in Spokane, Washington.
A bill to gain national attention for the holiday was introduced in Congress in 1913.In 1924, President Calvin Coolidge publicly backed the idea, but stopped short of issuing a national proclamation.It was 1966 when President Lyndon Johnson signed a presidential proclamation honoring fathers by declaring the 3rd Sunday of June as Father’s Day.President Richard Nixon made it a permanent national holiday by signing it into law in 1972.
A day to celebrate fathers is held in over 50 countries around the world, usually in May, June or the early autumn.Some Catholic countries celebrate it on the Feast of St. Joseph.The flower symbolic of Father’s Day, is the rose.Red is to be worn for a living father and white for a father who has passed on.
Statistics show that Father’s Day is the fifth most popular holiday for the sending of cards.It is estimated that $95 million is spent on cards each year.This includes cards not just for fathers, but grandfathers, uncles, sons and son-in-laws.And although more direct phone calls are made on Mother’s Day, more collect calls occur on Father’s Day.
There are many quotes about fathers including:
"It doesn't matter who my father was; it matters who I remember he was." -- Anne Sexton
"I cannot think of any need in childhood as strong as the need for a father's protection." -- Sigmund Freud
"If the new American father feels bewildered and even defeated, let him take comfort from the fact that whatever he does in
any fathering situation has a fifty percent chance of being right."
-- Bill Cosby
In cemeteries too, fathers are remembered and honored in many ways and by various names.A father who acted as teacher, disciplinarian, protector and friend is one to be honored and remembered.